b'Noticed45I really wish that someone would have pushed me harder the past couple of yearsnot necessarily with academics, but with sociability and involvement. I think if that would have happened, I would have put myself out there more and ultimately would have been less socially anxious today. I think that if someone, anyone, would have been firm about me joining clubs and hanging out with friends, rather than allowing me to be unmotivated and scared, I would be in a much better position now. Because . . .no one really made me go out and make something of myself, coupled with the fact that I myself had no motivation to do so, I feel so unprepared for the world, and it is hard to do anything social due to my crippling anxiety.Allison, 18'